.: the princess and the frog :.

yesterday me n my family went to watch a movie~

aunty came down to putrajaya to fetch her sons..n my cousin decided to watch avatar as we gather...but to think of it...avatar is just soooo not me...hehe...no...never watched it but the princess and the frog(TPnTF) much closer to me...hehe..

so, as d rest were watching avatar, me N umi n kak ngah watched TPnTF..

the story is soooo funny...n i loike!

ok...we r so used to d tale of frog prince~when a princess kissed a frog n d frog turned to b a handsome prince charming..owhkies...in this story it doesn't work like that..the 'princess' kisses a cursed frog but she becomes frog instead...at first i wondered (b4 i watched d muvie k) how will they make d 'princess' turned to be a frog..when i watched it then i understand...because d 'princess' is not a princess...d cursed frog (ok...he talks) asks the so called 'princess' to kiss him so that he can became human being again...because d 'princess' dresses like a princess..so..d journey starts when both of them have to work out to be human again...there, they meet new frens..
ray the firefly, louis the alligator n mama odie (who is supposed to help them to b human again)..ok...i won't tell much...to those who haven't catch the movie yet...i think it's still showing in the cinema...go and watch..

to me..it is worth watching... =)

.: kerana lidahnya :.

ye..sy tukar layout saye...nape?saje..nak tukar angin..hehe..

sempena masuk tahun baru ni (boleh?), i tot of having a fresh new start...so...first thing first..tukar layout..bg npk lain sket..resembles the fresh new me..ar...new me?x de la..same jer.. =)

oh ye..ari ni rase nak cite pasal drama slm kat cerekarama..
title~kerana lidahnya..-a very good story..byk pengajaran

alhamdulillah sume manusia yg cukup sifat dikurnikan mulut n lidah..

ape fungsi lidah?
-utk membantu kite utk makan
-utk merasa makanan
-utk menghasilkan siliva (air liur)
-dan utk membantu kite utk mengeluarkan butir2 perkataan (bercakap la tu)...

cube bayangkan kalo kite x de lidah...harus susah hidup kita..utk makan n bercakap basically kan..

ok..pasal cite semalam. cite tu pasal sorg wife ni yg sgt2 suke menjaja cite jiran2..suke lwn kata suami..sedangkan dia sepatutnya tolong mendidik suami krn suaminya muallaf..suke merendah2kan org..n finally suami dia tinggalakn dia utk mencari ketenangan n wife td ni diturunkan balasan oleh Allah n membuatkan dia x leh bercakap..tp masa berlalu, si wife ni pown insaf..baik balik dgn family, lelaki yg dulu dikutk kini dia dah npk kebaikannya n jd menantu die...d best part was, dia pindah umah n dpt jiran yg suke mengata..it ends there..ape lg...LU PIKIRLAH SENDIRI.. =)

LIDAH LEBIH TAJAM DARIPADA PEDANG

knape sy katakn mcm tu..

imam Ghazali pernah bertanya kpd anak2 muridnya. apakah yg plg tajam sekali dlm dunia? semuanya menjawab dengan yakin PEDANG. ttp, imam Ghazali menyatakan bhw LIDAHLAH YANG PALING TAJAM krn melalui lidah seseorg itu mudah menyakiti hati saudaranya yg lain.

Rasulullah s.a.w ada bersabda

“Kebanyakan dosa anak Adam adalah kerana lidahnya.” (Hadis riwayat Tabrani dan Baihaqi)

tanpa kita sedari setiap tutur kata kita ada kalanya menyakiti insan lain..mungkin insan yg plg kita sayangi n kita hormati. x ketinggalan mungkin suami kita, isteri kita, yg lebih menyedihkan, mungkin hati ibubapa kita..wallahualam..

KATA2 YG DIKELUARKAN TANPA KAWALAN ITU KDG2 MAAT MEMEDIHKAN N KESAN LUKANYA AMATLAH TAJAM N MENINGGALKAN PARUT YG SUKAR HILANG..

bercerita ttg pengalaman sendiri. x terkira byknya..kdg2 dgn org yg plg rapat n plg kita sayangi. mungkin sy yg over sensitive kot. tp tu la..kata2 yg terbit dr mulut tu sangaT2 la melukakan jika kita x mengawal butiran kata yg keluar.

kerana lidah, kawan menjauhkan diri. mmg kita x sedar ape yg kita cakap yg boleh mebuatkan org jauh hati dgn kita. ye la...cakapa druuuuu~~~ laju. mmg kita x sedar. tp sentiasa muhasabah diri. nilai diri melalui kacamata kwn2, ty kwn2, cam ne cara percakapan kita. menyakitkan ke? kuang menyenangkan ke?a good friend will always tell the truth about her friend =)


Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini

BILA BERBICARA DGN IBUBAPA

masih lagi perihal lidah.

Allah SWT berfirman ygertinya “Dan Tuhanmu telah memerintahkan supaya kamu tidak menyembah selain Dia dan hendaklah kamu berbuat baik pada ibu bapakmu dgn sebaik-baiknya. Jika salah seorang dari mereka atau kedua-duanya sampai berumur lanjut dalam pemeliharaanmu maka janganlah sekali-kali kamu berkata ‘ah’ kepada mereka dan janganlah kamu membentak mereka dan ucapkanlah kepada mereka perkataan yg mulia. Dan rendahkanlah dirimu terhadap mereka berdua dgn penuh kasih sayang dan ucapkanlah “Wahai Tuhanku rahmatilah mereka berdua sebagaimana mereka telah mendidik aku waktu kecil”.

menurut firman Allah seperti di atas, kita tidak sekali2 dibenarkan utk melawan walaupun cuma utk berkata ah, aoatah lg utk membentak n menengking ibubapa kita..siapa kita utk melawan kasih sayang insan yg sudi mealihrkan, membesarkan n mendidik kita..tidak layak utk kita melawan kata2 mereka..sepatutnya kita mengeluarkan kata2 yg menyenangkan..kata2 yg lembut didengar

teringat saya cerita seorg hamba Allah..dia seorg yg cantik n pandai..semua mengakui..tapi apabila tiba hari keputusan peperiksaan, keputusan tidak seperti dijangkakan. dan hamba Allah itu sukar utk meneruskan perjalanan menyambung pelajaran pd mulanya. mengenali dia, sy menasihati dia, check balik kelemahan kita, hubungan kita dgn ibubapa, bgaimana pergaulan dgn ibubapa. Alhamdulillah kini hamba Alalh itu sedang meniti kejayaan demi kejayaan..

sedarkah kita kerana lidah kita anak2 ni, ibu kita boleh menangis. sy pernah tgk seorg ibu menitiskan air mata kerana tidak thn menerima butiran kata2 anaknya. hati ibu sgt la mudah terusik, lagi2 melibatkan anak2 yg dikandung selama 9 bulan. ye..mmg kita jiwa muda, memberontak tp kita x da hak utk berkelakuan sebegitu, apatah lg kpd insan yg bersusah payah menagndungkan n melawan kesakitan melahirkan.. tepuk dada tanya iman =)

mari kita berfikir. bagaimanakah cara percakapan kita dgn ibubapa kita?

sy sendiri menagkui diri x sempurna. tp kita cuba perbaiki. terutama dr segi percakapan agar enak didengar n disenangi oleh rakan n lawan.

berkongsi pengalam sbgai guru, of course ade students yg nakal kan. i believe that rotan is d final solution. kita perlu menegur dia, menasihati dia, memujuk dia..bila dia dah x dgr, barulah kita buat tindakan yg lebih..

n sebagai guru juga, lidah lah aset penting seorg guru..nape?itulah keje kite..bercakap utk berkongsi ilmu dgn anak2 kita..jd, jagalah lidah kita n ucapkanlah butir2 kata yg menyenangkan..

PENGALAMAN SEBAGAI GURU

tak dinafikan hati wanita sy pernah tersentuh dgn kerenah anak2 ni. merajuk?erm...x la sampai merajuk tp sy menegur anak2 ini. kita berdiplomasi. insya Allah kalo dia hormat kita, die leh trime apeyg kite cube sampaiakn. biasa la, anak2 muda zaman sekarang, bile rapat dgn guru, kdg2 kita dianggap sebagai kwn. sy selalu berpesan dgn anak sy 'at times, we can have fun. i can laugh together with u, but do remember that i am still your teacher n i do need the respect'

ingin sy berpesan kpd kwn2 n adek2 sy...jagalah lidah mu..jangan salahgunakan nikmat yg Allah berikan kpd kita. jg percakapan, teruatam kita org prmpuan. perlu jg adab sopan gadsi melayu yg terkenal dgn lemah lembutnya..

gunakan lidah sebaiknya utk mengucapkan kata2 yg elok..bercakap benda yg bermanfaat..menyampaikn benda2 yg baik..berzikir..basahkan lidah dgn zikir menyebut namaNYa yg satu..

sempena maseh dlm mood tahun baru hijrah ni, sama2 la kita berhijrah utk menjadi insann yg lebih dr segi percakapan..kurangkan mebumpat..kalo boleh berenti tros mmg superb la..~owh ini reminder utk sy sdiri jugak...adehai~~

jagalah lidah dari menyakiti insan yg kita sayangi..insya Allah kalo kita jg hati org lain, ade insan lain yg akan cube manjaga hati kita..

owh~is it really me writing this?huhu...x pe..renung2kan dan selamat beramal..

.: men are from mars and women are from venus part 1 :.

i've just bought new books~~yippie yeay to me..
finally!huhu

n d best part was...i managed to get two books for one price~another yippie yeay to me...hehe

excitedly reading men are from mars and women are from venus..
yee..ye..sy tau buku ni dhlame..when i checked, the book first published was in 1992-sy darjah 2...n maseh blajar mencintai bhs inggeris..definitely i didn't know the existence of this book.hehe..

found out thru saifulislam's blog that this book is inspiring...a good book esp to those who want to understand more on male-female relationship..i've read until chapter 4...n most of them are true..facts about us...

ape yg sy dpt setakat ni...

when bot male n female are having problems, they have different way on dealing with the probs..it's sooooo true...correct me if i'm wrong...

i bet..u...girls...we rather talk, share about it...rite?n we always go to our male partner in order to share d problem..or our trustworthy frens...y?because we believe that sharing through expressing is healing..and we seldom seek for solutions from them when we share d probs...at that moment, we are more to wanting someone to listen to us...just listen...that's all..

compare it to boys..when they know that their girl partner is having problems, they like to give solutions...for example..

'awak nak tau x...bos sy tu bad mood je ari ni...abes sume org dimarahnye..termasuk sy'
'ala...die ade problem la tu...cube awk wat x fhm je'

as for me...kekadang lg rase nak mrh la kan...

sebab bile sy rase marah...sy mmg akan bising...but let me...because after that, i will be a lot better...

based on this book, kalo lelaki..diorg ni lebih byk diam kalo ade mslh....erm...betul la tu...i've seen a lot of my boyfriends...they rather keep their problems to themselves...they don't like to share...betul kan?

erm...byk lg....nti la...kal dh abes bace....kite tulis lg...tgh excited nak bace buku ni....

sometimes...being silence is better~~

hidup, cinta dan inspirasi.....

okies..now i wanan talk bout d musical i've watched recently..

p ramlee the musical...

erm..went to watch it with ummi..actually, kak ngah really wanted to watch it but she's having final examination that time..so i just went to watch it with ummi..just the two of us..
arrived there around 7.15..went straight to surau to perform our maghrib..then..went to lepak2 at d cafe..mkn wat alas perut jer..hehe..mkn nasi lemak n beli air tin cincau..at first, i didn't realiza dat the boy in front of me is 'mukhsin' (i dun remember d name..hehe..ala..d one yg berlakon jd mukhsin tu la)..then, tgk dua kali br perasan..it's mukhsin..hehe..tp tgk je la..
pas2 aorund 8.15 masuk la d theater .. sultan perak pon ade skali tgk teater tu..hehe..
around 8.30..start la..
it starts with p ramlee (played by sean ghazi) and saloma (liza hanim) sat togehter n p ramlee cam mengenang2 balik la zaman kegemilanagn..mase tu die tgh cipta lagu air mata di kuala lumpr (if i'm not mistaken la ;p) pas2 start la..die flashback time zmn kanak2 die..mase die jumpe d azizah..mase ni kecik lg..pas2...pas2..dh besar.. tunjuk psal p ramlee n azizah (siti nurhaliza)..how the met secretly..n how azizah became his inspiration..then p ramlee pegi singapore..
how he became famous there n kawen dgn junaidah (atilia)..but, their marriage didn't lasts long. terciptalah lagu hujan di tengah hari...pas2..
p ramlee kawen dgn norizan (melissa saila)..norizan ni dari istana..cam ade la kerabat2 kot....tp..perkahwinan diorg pon x lame..coz norizan x thn dgn ke'busy'an p ramlee..n sbab p ramlee masih igt cinta pertama dia.. azizah..again..p ramlee is alone..until....
he met saloma..scene diorg ni sgt la chomel..ala~ala~ malu tp mahu gitu..hehe..cute sgt..




overall, the show was okay..best la jugak..i enjoy it..n i can see that ummi is really enjoying it.. =)

-as d first timer, siti as azizah was okay la..tp..suara die nyanyi mmg power la..sedap je die nyanyi.. -ppl seems to b excited bile kuar kepale kereta api zaman dulu2..even my ummi said 'wah'..hehehe... -melissa saila's acting is really good..mmg jd ar..esp part die bertengkar dgn p ramlee.. -liza hanim as saloma..alahai..mmg manje gitu.. -suke infinatez (from gangstarz tu) jd paparazzi..mmg klakar n comell!!
-d new somgs sume mmg best n kene dgn scene..really like mulanya cinta by siti n sean ghazi..cite ttg keindahan cinta pertama.. =)